Lisa
Readers, this post is a bit longer than most. Apologies. I wrote this to be read at an evening of Christmas songs and stories. Enjoy.
Most of the time, it is quite advantageous to be enrolled in an all-girls’ school when you’re 7-years-old. There was, however, one time during the second grade at St. Mildred’s Lightborne School for Girls when boys were sorely missed: the Christmas Pageant. The second graders were always cast in the leading roles. And, since there were no boys to play the boy roles, girls had to do it. We second graders didn’t get to audition– everything was just decided for us and then announced by the homeroom teacher, Mrs. McBurney. She must have known that had she held proper auditions, she would have had 22 girls auditioning for Mary.
In truth, most of the other roles weren’t dreaded so much. The angel Gabriel was a pretty enviable part because it came with a very attractive costume. This was also true of the wise men. Being a shepherd was less desirable but if you had a good props mistress, you’d be flanked with stuffed sheep that would detract from your costume, which, let’s face it, was pretty much guaranteed to be a ratty bathrobe.
In fact, the only role that was truly dreaded was the role of Joseph. The girl who played Joseph had to wear a fake beard and hold a cane. Nothing was less feminine than Joseph.
Mrs. McBurney stood at the front of the classroom. “All right girls,” she said, “Today I am going to announce the casting for the Christmas Pageant.”
She started with smaller roles—the shepherds, the inn keeper, the heavenly host. When Mrs. McBurney announced that Angela Chang would be Mary, we all cooed and clapped. Mrs. McBurney shushed the cooing, “Now for the role of Joseph,” she said. “Joseph will be played by… Lisa Piorczynski.”
My heart dropped. No one clapped or cooed. The nice girls just looked at me sympathetically while the mean ones snickered gleefully. Why me? I wondered. What did I do to deserve THIS?
That night at home I thought of ways I could escape my fate: breaking an arm, catching a contagious disease, moving to Guatemala. But, knowing that none of these escape routes were very practical, I came to the conclusion that the only way I could get out of the situation was the same way Mary and Joseph got into it: a miracle.
So I started praying for one. We had two weeks until the pageant. And I was confident that 2 weeks was plenty of time for God to give me a miracle.
But the first week of rehearsals passed slowly and was painfully lacking in miracles. Over the weekend, I doubled my efforts. I prayed harder, with my eyes closed more tightly and my hands clasped more devotedly. But Monday, Tuesday and Wednesday passed with no miracle.
Then on Thursday—the day of our dress rehearsal—Mrs. McBurney stood up to make an announcement. “Girls, I’m afraid I have some bad news,” she said. “Mrs. Chang called to inform me that Angela broke her leg last night at her gymnastics meet.”
Everyone gasped. Except for me. My praying had paid off and my miracle had come just in time. Surely this meant that the pageant would be cancelled and that I would be saved. No Christmas pageant could go on without Mary.
“This means,” Mrs. McBurney continued, “that Mary is going to be on crutches. Lisa, you’ll have to carry a chair on stage for her, and you’ll have to hold her crutches for her when she’s sitting down.”
God had given me a perfectly good miracle and just like that Mrs. McBurney took it away.
After our dress rehearsal was over, my dad came with our station wagon to pick me up. He said that I was sitting like a little lump of coal and wanted to know what my problem was.
“My problem is that I’ve spent the past 2 weeks praying for a miracle but my stupid homeroom teacher took it away,” I said, arms crossed in the back seat. I explained about Angela Chang’s broken leg, about having to carry the chair and about my hideous costume.
“Lisa,” my father said, “Did you know that your grandmother hated peaches?”
“What?”
“Your Polish grandmother she hated peaches. But peaches saved our family.”
“Dad,” I said, “What are you talking about?”
My dad smiled, “When your grandparents came here from Poland to farm they had no money, Lisa. They didn’t even have a stove in their house. But they worked hard, and they prayed for a miracle just like you. In the spring a frost came that killed most of the peach crop in the area. There were just two little pockets of land that were spared. And your grandparents’ farm was in one of those little pockets. Peach prices went through the roof; they got enough money from those peaches to buy a stove and a tractor. Your grandmother always called it ‘the miracle of the peaches.’ She hated peaches, but peaches saved them.”
I stared at my dad, unimpressed. “So what? I don’t see how peaches are going to save me.”
My dad smiled, “My point is that maybe you’ve misread the miracle. Maybe the miracle isn’t Angela Chang breaking her leg. Maybe the miracle is you being there to help her with the chair and with her crutches. Maybe you are the peach. Your grandmother didn’t like peaches and you don’t like being Joseph. Lisa, maybe you’re the miracle.”
I was quiet for a minute as I thought about what my father had said. Maybe my dad was right. Maybe I was the miracle. Maybe I was the peach. Being a peach was definitely better than being Joseph.
The next night—the night of the pageant—I felt better. As Mary hobbled out on stage and I straggled behind her, orange plastic chair in hand, some parents snickered under their breath. Those same parents snickered again at the sight of me standing, resolutely behind Mary, staff in one hand, crutches in the other. But, since I knew that I was really a peach and not just Joseph, it didn’t matter so much.
And after it was finished and people came up to me and asked me how I liked playing Joseph, I corrected them. “Oh, I wasn’t just Joseph,” I explained. “I was the peach. I was the miracle. And I really enjoyed being the miracle, thanks for asking.”






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December 22, 2009 at 10:33 am
Howard
That is a great story. Your dad is awesome. Your writing is wonderful too. I hope that your first Christmas married is a wonderful one. I am sure it will be! I will keep my eye out for a few more peaches in my life, I am sure they are they, just waiting for me to notice.
Millions of peaches, peaches for me.
December 22, 2009 at 10:48 am
Elise
How could anyone hate a peach! However, I do realize that the point is that often our miracles come through vehicles we don’t expect or even understand. Most of my miracles have come and gone before I recognized them.
December 22, 2009 at 11:04 am
Brohammas
Sure, everyone here is going to tell you how that was a great and touching story. All that is true, which makes it easy to tell, but no one else will tell you that half way between Charlotte NC and Greenville SC there is a giant water tower in the shape of, and perfectly painted like, a peach.
This would naturally make one think of James and the Giant Peach…. till someone points out to you that the peach, from the view of the highway, really looks like a giant, peach colored, bare bottom.
So really your post makes me think of a 20 story peach butt in Gaffney South Carolina. Thank you for that.
December 22, 2009 at 11:22 am
Kelly
This made me cry. Thanks- and I read you last post- about the christmas cards- lake last night and that made me laugh. Thanks for brightening my day!
Oh- and here’s the blurb I sent out with my card this year- (the picture is a family shot taken at diisneyland in November in which my husband was the sacrificial lamb- (the one who looks bad, but I looked fabulous so he took one for the team):
What NOT to do; learned the hard way…
Do not attempt to drive carpool while sick with vertigo. Driving with your body tilted sideways looks suspicious. (So does driving 55 in a 35 and having your registration expired… woops.)
If you let your mailbox fill up because no one goes out to get it, they will take it to the post office and leave a little note telling you to come get it when you are ready for mail service again… (You can wait as long as you want)
If you tell the groomer, “just cut it short all over, I don’t like all the shedding”, the dog can no longer be taken to show and tell.
If you forget to pay the gas bill, don’t worry, the gas guy will knock on the door BEFORE he shuts it off, and you can write him a check! (Handy!)
When your 4- year old comes to you in the middle of a party and says, “Mom- there is poop everywhere, AND IT IS NOT GOOD!”—you really shouldn’t go look. You don’t want to know.
On the upside, the dog’s hair grew back, the gas is still on, and mail service has resumed. As for the mess in the bathroom… you don’t want to know. Hope your life is cleaner and more organized than ours… Merry Christmas!
sorry for the long comment- I know getting an unsolicited Christmas Card is a bit like getting unsolicited advice before you get married- but I was proud of all the horrific things I did this year- Merry Christmas!
December 22, 2009 at 11:36 am
Lisa's Husband/Guyfriend/Boyfriend 6.0/Tagg
When I was seven, I was cast as a Christmas angel. Not so bad. Until they explained the costume.
What? TIGHTS?
No self-respecting, BB gun toting, BMX riding, second grade man-child would ever wear tights. Never. At that point, I wouldn’t even circle “yes” on Mandy McCurdy’s notes (except for when she included Smarties–Smarties neutralize cooties).
Wait. More? What?
Not just tights, but white tights, in front of the world?
My life was over.
After much anxiety-induced cajoling, I convinced my mom. She bought me a pair of white jeans. I was at peace, until I realized something on stage:
A boy in tights is weird, but not as weird as ten other kids in tights and one reject in white jeans. Never before and never since have I wanted Christmas to be over like I did at that moment.
I’m still looking for the peaches.
Lisa, maybe you can help me. And, once again, wonderful post.
December 22, 2009 at 11:37 am
Lisa's Husband/Guyfriend/Tagg
When I was seven, I was cast as a Christmas angel. Not so bad. Until they explained the costume.
What? TIGHTS?
No self-respecting, BB gun toting, BMX riding, second grade man-child would ever wear tights. Never. At that point, I wouldn’t even circle “yes” on Mandy McCurdy’s notes (except for when she included Smarties–Smarties neutralize cooties).
Wait. More? What?
Not just tights, but white tights, in front of the world?
My life was over.
After much anxiety-induced cajoling, I convinced my mom. She bought me a pair of white jeans. I was at peace, until I realized something on stage:
A boy in tights is weird, but not as weird as ten other kids in tights and one reject in white jeans. Never before and never since have I wanted Christmas to be over like I did at that moment.
I’m still looking for the peaches.
Lisa, maybe you can help me. And, once again, wonderful post.
December 22, 2009 at 11:39 am
sarah6
Thanks for making me laugh this morning! And Brohammas. That’s an image:)
December 22, 2009 at 1:48 pm
Howard
Tagg – Hehe, I actually think I remember that, and remember laughing. Bad cousin. Karma got me though. I had to be some Shakespearean character for some play soon after and had to wear tights… It was like having everything vacuum packed and on display for everyone I knew… Not just peaches, but all the fruits of the loin.
December 22, 2009 at 1:52 pm
corktree
Perfectly unexpected Christmas tale – and delightfully told!
Thank you Apron Stage for the fun posts…you are always a much needed distraction just at the right time – and I’ve never needed a good reminder of finding miracles where least expected as I do now. No pressure on the rest of the week, but you guys really do make my day.
December 22, 2009 at 2:10 pm
CSIowa
I knew this would be a great post as soon as I saw the peach! My former stake president always had a story involving peaches. His family’s peach orchard sent several sons on missions. They started it from peach pits, years in advance of the need.
I am really enjoying this blog! It is also entertaining when the comments become like a game of telephone, where you end up somewhere far removed from where you started, but it’s possible to trace back all the links that got you there–even if “there” is a 20-story peach butt.
Tagg’s comment somehow takes me back to dating my husband. He had a pair of tight, white Levi’s. He wore them with a cream-colored button-down shirt from GAP that had black pin stripes. Obviously, one of the two wardrobe items had to go. In the end it was the white jeans. Now I know that he should have donated them to the Christmas pageant.
December 22, 2009 at 5:19 pm
rvs
“Being a peach was definitely better than being Joseph.” I love that line, Lisa. Great post. Hooray for your father for adding perspective to your life, and consequently all your readers, too.
December 22, 2009 at 6:38 pm
Cath
That was a lovely post. There’s nothing sweeter than a girl’s relationship with her father and all we learn from him.
December 22, 2009 at 7:17 pm
lisapiorczynski
Hello all! And Merry Christmas. We’ve had a quite day today–which actually makes me happy because I imagine you are all enjoying your loved ones. Much love to all our Apron Stage readers and their families!
Howard,
The peaches song is now stuck in my head. Like really stuck. Thanks. (I think.)
Elise,
I know! I adore peaches. Even the skin. I don’t know why people take it off. I like the fuzzy goodness. Yum!
Brohammas,
AWESOME. Okay, that actually reminds me of this ad that was all over France when I studied there as a student. On one side of the ad was a peach. On the other was a bum. I don’t know what the ad was even for. I imagine some sort of cream. Maybe? Anyway, now I’ve got something to watch for next time I road trip through SC. Thanks!
Kelly,
Hilarious! Love your 2009 adventures. Great, great update. “If you forget to pay the gas bill, don’t worry, the gas guy will knock on the door BEFORE he shuts it off, and you can write him a check! (Handy!)” Still chuckling at that one. I’m pretty sure that’ll happen to me one of these days. Thanks for reading and being here.
Tagg,
Oh, I shouldn’t laugh at your pain. I really shouldn’t. But I am. You in white jeans. Hot stuff, baby.
sarah6,
You are welcome! (It’s funny how this post makes some laugh and others cry. I guess that kind of sums up the sweeter moments of our childhood, right?)
Howie,
Dying. Just dying here. So funny. (Okay, what’s it with our family and stories about tights??? I was waiting for Dad to get on and talk about the Purple Cow with accompanying tights costume.) Maybe I’ll get you all these for Christmas:
http://www.stylelist.com/2009/09/24/mantihose-mens-tights-selfridges/
“Mantihose!” Now that’s an awesome gift!
corktree,
Thanks for being our audience. Seriously, we are so grateful to this wonderful online community. I know so few of you personally, but I feel like we’re friends. It makes me so happy to have these comments from you.
CSIowa,
I’m so glad you’re enjoying The Apron Stage! Makes me happy. And I LOVE the outfit description. I had this one friend who frequently wore a denim shirt with denim jeans and I always wanted to tell him that was a bad idea, but didn’t have the heart. Hopefully his future wife will take care of that one for me.
rvs,
Yes, horray for Dads giving us perspective! Amen, amen.
Cath,
Absolutely. I think I’ll always have a soft spot for Daddy/Daughter stories.
December 22, 2009 at 9:08 pm
Kahalia
Actually Brohammas, it’s called the Peachoid. Here’s a link to check out a picture.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Peachoid
December 22, 2009 at 9:52 pm
Marilyn
Oooh, this is a wonderful peach-miracle story! I love the way your dad moved past just sympathizing with you and helped you see something larger than yourself. Helped you to grow. To be able to see that “since I knew that I was really a peach and not just Joseph, it didn’t matter so much.”
My own parenting insights usually come at least two days later than needed, and they’re generally tangled up in words that make my children’s eyes roll. Kudos to your dad, and kudos to you too for moving valiantly ahead with the staff, crutches, and plastic chair.
December 23, 2009 at 1:02 am
lisapiorczynski
Kahalia,
You rock. Thanks for the link.
Marilyn,
“My own parenting insights usually come at least two days later than needed.” I hear you. I mean, I don’t have any kids yet, but I definitely feel this way about giving advice. I’ve gotten to the point where I just resort to writing because it’s the medium I’m most comfortable communicating with. My future kids are gonna be getting A LOT of notes from me.
December 23, 2009 at 1:34 pm
Kaedi
Lisa — I love this story, and it gets better every time I hear it!