
Lisa
I come from a long line of low maintenance women. Women whose make up drawers consist only of mascara and a tube of lip gloss, whose nightly face washing routine involves splashing water on their face and calling it good.
Consequently, many of my early experiments with cosmetics did not go well.
In college, my best friend Kristen and I decided that we’d give waxing a try. It didn’t occur to us that it might be a good idea to go to a salon and pay a professional just to see how it was done. Nope. We didn’t have the money or patience for that. Instead, we ran to the nearest corner store and bought a home kit and went to town.
The results were comedic. We over heated the wax, burned our legs and accidentally spilled the jar on our kitchen table. I’m pretty sure that poor table is still sticky and that its current owner is still blaming the stickiness on a maple syrup mishap.
I have since learned better. I have paid my dues at a salon and I have found a home kit that works for me.
Then last weekend my parents and Little Brother came for a visit. Bless Little Brother’s soul, he said, “Lisa, I read Sarah’s post on losing weight. Girls make a lot of sacrifices to look good and I think that guys need to step up their game. My girlfriends are always talking about how guys need to wax. So, I was wondering if you would help me get rid of some of the stray hairs on my chest and upper arms. Don’t make me look like Michael Phelps or anything. Just, you know, clean me up a little.”
I was feeling pretty good. Not only does my sibling 8 years my junior read my blog every day, he also comes to me for cosmetic help. I am cool. Trustworthy. Better than a make over show. YES!
“Well,” I said in my most professional voice, “I’d be happy to. I’ve got the wax but nothing to apply it with. Think you could go to the grocery store and get some popsicle sticks?”
Little Brother and Tagg returned with something even better: those massive Home Depot paint sticks. “This is more manly,” they said.
Here’s why I will never be able to get a job at a salon:
-I figured that since I wasn’t allergic to the wax that Little Brother wouldn’t be allergic to the wax.
-Little Brother had just spent the previous day tanning on the roof of our apartment building; it didn’t occur to me that it might not be a good idea to slather hot wax on burnt skin.
-I forgot to tell him to avoid a hot shower for the first few hours post-waxing.
Needless to say, I am no longer a cosmetic guru in Little Brother’s eyes. Again, Little Brother, I’m really, really sorry. But keep applying the aloe vera. It will help. I think.





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October 27, 2009 at 9:03 am
smylies
Oh this is rich. So so rich. Benny, I’m going to laugh all day. Not at you. I promise.
October 27, 2009 at 9:43 am
living in zion
I am so sorry for both of you. Lisa, for being forever the inflicter of the pain, and your sweet brother for volunteering for it.
This is as good as the first time I used an electric hair shaver on my husband and scalped him right up the back of his head. He wore an extreme reverse mohawk hairdo for weeks. So, so sorry.
October 27, 2009 at 10:36 am
sarahlolson
I love that your brother thought of me or my post on any day that wasn’t a Monday.
Thanks for the sacrifice, Little Brother. On behalf of women, I say: That’s ridiculously sweet. Also, I’m sorry.
October 27, 2009 at 10:55 am
corktree
You guys make it so hard not to laugh at the expense of others (good thing facial waxing wasn’t involved). Hilariously sad, and I love the title!
October 27, 2009 at 11:12 am
Em-Cat
I know I shouldn’t be – but I’m giggling. Poor little bro! I sell a brand of vitamins called TwinLab to the local health food stores out here in the west. They have a product called “Na-PCA.” I have a ton of male clients who use it after they wax their chests because it is AWESOME and makes them feel a lot better. The little red bumps and irritation go away quickly – as long as you apply it twice a day for a few days. I use it for sunburns and I haven’t peeled in 3 years. It’s in a white spray bottle and more than likely you can find it at your nearest health food store. You can get it with or without aloe as well. I hope you feel better little bro!
October 27, 2009 at 11:17 am
Brohammas
Little brother,
Any activity that you have to change the equipment in order to “make it more manly”, should not be engaged in by a man in the first place.
If girls you date now talk of how men need to wax, run, as your need for body hair removal will dramatically increase in the not so distant future.
And finally, you ask siblings for money, NOT for help in doing anything involving a semi permanent change in your appearance, or credit. Years of compiled bad Karma will always ensure these situations end badly.
October 27, 2009 at 11:33 am
Traci
Brohammas! What’s good for the goose is good for the gander! No one needs to look like Joe Laurence but a little help in the unibrow department – not a bad idea. I also have to say, if you don’t have good chest hair it’s gotta go. No man sweaters, no chest equivelent of a soul patch, please guys, wax, its nice.
One of my favorite memories is waxing with my sister. I wanted her to do my arm pits – late reaction screaming is funny.
October 27, 2009 at 12:05 pm
lisapiorczynski
We actually have this on video. My dad was laughing so hard at the entire situation. He was expecting Little Bro to scream a la Steve Carrell. He didn’t. Totally brave and cool with it all.
smylies,
Send Little Bro a virtual hug. Only don’t hold him too close. It still hurts.
livinginzion,
Oh, the hair cut story. I actually did that too. Only I did it to my older sister’s boyfriend. Oops.
saraholson,
I actually thought about blaming this entire thing on you. Totally Sarah’s fault for writing something that made you think!!! But, clearly, it was mine.
corktree,
Amen. At least he wasn’t a girl looking for a lip wax, right?
Em-Cat,
You are a life saver. Little Bro, let’s get you some of those to make it all better.
Brohammas,
Okay, I agree with not going to siblings for help with cosmetic endeavors. You’ve got a point there. But I think that men need to get rid of weird hairs. Long ear hairs and nose hairs in particular. Laser them. Menopause makes women grow all kinds of weird extra hair. I didn’t know this until recently because it seems that most women take care of it beautifully. I’ll second Traci on her response…
Traci,
This will definitely go down in the Piorczynski memory book as a great story. Glad to hear you and your sister made it though a similar event. (You did make it through, didn’t you?)
October 27, 2009 at 12:37 pm
Elise
It could be worse. I once melted my sister’s hair. Yes… melted.
October 27, 2009 at 1:40 pm
lisapiorczynski
Elise,
I think you have a guest blog in the making…
October 27, 2009 at 1:46 pm
Cheryl
I guess little brother has come a long way from screaming and having tantrums about 1) my mother applying sunscreen and 2) “itchy” (non-cotton) sweaters. Way to take one for the team little bro!
Lisa, I would never want to wax another person… that’s just trouble waiting to happen!
October 27, 2009 at 3:56 pm
sarahlolson
Lisa, you realize that with your picture right next to your post, “I come from a long line of low maintenance women” reads like “I come from a long line of beautiful women.”
Which is okay because having met you, your mother, and your sister, I’m going to go with yes. You do.
October 27, 2009 at 4:11 pm
Cath
The image of two “men” walking in with Home Depot paint stirrers as home beauty treatments is unforgettable and priceless.
October 27, 2009 at 6:17 pm
Little Brother
Unfortunately all of this is true. Waxing my good guy friends is totally not worth it. We men are much better off just trimming, with a beard trimmer. Yes we may have to do it more often but trust me, rashes itchiness, skin breaking out!?! (no one mentioned any of these side affects) I believe I was conned by media that waxing has no side affects! Wrong! as I sit here writing this my chest begs to be scratched…… This whole waxing experience reminds me of all the drugs I see advertised on television where what they cure isn’t nearly as bad as all the “possible side affects”. Fool me once shame on you fool me twice shame on me. Never again will I be fooled with wax and it’s cunning enticements of smooth hairless skin. Shame on you wax for deceiving men everywhere!
October 27, 2009 at 6:19 pm
Little Brother
P.S. Cath- I’m not really digging your little bunny ears : ” ” around Men in previous comment
October 27, 2009 at 8:17 pm
meredith
I think the guys who are willing to do this kind of stuff are the most fun to hang out with! I had some male friends years ago who let me and the girls put face masks on them, and buff their nails. They were the kind of guys that were really comfortable to be around. And I’m pretty sure they secretly liked it.
And yes, please keep yourself neat and tidy little brother! Nose hairs and uni-brows are NOT attractive. That’s a deal breaker, ladies. He he.
October 27, 2009 at 9:22 pm
Traci
Meredith, if that was a 30 Rock reference I salute you.
October 27, 2009 at 11:25 pm
Kristen
Oh, how far we novices have come since college.
My little bro is becoming quite the sasquatch and asked me to wax his chest a few years ago. To my credit, I did read the instructions. And much like any clean-up product, it mentions to try a small test area first. Let’s just say, he had only one square inch bald patch…
October 27, 2009 at 11:40 pm
AnnaBeth
I hate watching America’s Funniest Home Videos and seeing the shot after shot of person/people: fall down, smack! I never laugh. I cringe.
But in this case….I might have giggled a little at your expense. So sorry. Feel better. Stay away from the wax.
October 28, 2009 at 9:36 am
Amanda
I may or may not pluck my husband’s unibrow. He may or may not ask me to do it. He may or may not like me telling everyone this.
October 30, 2009 at 3:54 am
kirsti
liiisa, tea tree oil works best, although aloe does soothe!!
but i actually laughed out loud at the “its more manly” part…classic!!
November 24, 2009 at 9:01 am
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